From minor indiscretions to major criminal acts, various causes can affect your reputation during divorce. Text messages to your ex or others and negative social media posts can be used against you in court, as well as delinquent behavior. Your spouse and their attorney will be looking for any possible signs of indiscretion or examples of your unreliable character.
The first thing that anyone in a divorce would be wise to do is make sure that there is not damaging or reckless content circling the internet about them. This includes social media posts, comments, photos, etc. In fact, it is recommended that you deactivate all social media accounts so that past indiscretions, even from years back, are not used by your ex’s legal team against you. Secondly, aim for an uncontested, amicable divorce. Working together with your spouse to settle out of court – whether that includes just your divorce attorneys or a divorce mediator or private arbitration judge – will mean that dirty laundry that arises during settlement agreements is not subject to public scrutiny. Any evidence a Family Part court judge hears is in the public domain, so bear that in mind when weighing the risks and benefits of court litigation. Finally, watch your behavior before and during divorce. Just because an action didn’t get posted online or booked as a misdemeanor doesn’t mean that it won’t come back to haunt you. Be responsible and modest during your divorce proceedings. This means no raucous nights out and limited to no dating before the divorce is finalized.
Your behavior during a divorce can affect you after your divorce and into the far future because actions affect outcomes. If you are a serial dater during your divorce, your ex may use that fact to build a case against you for receiving joint custody of your child. Non-discretionary spending during the divorce could lead a judge to augment the amount you receive in the divorce if you were pulling from a joint bank account. For these and many other reasons, being on your best behavior during a divorce is crucial.
As noted, handling a divorce in a private way is one of the best ways to preserve your reputation. For even the most conflict-ridden relationships, divorce mediators can provide an invaluable service in helping couples work through areas of conflict. And if you just can’t agree in certain areas, arbitration could be a viable and private way through for you and your ex. The arbitration judge will rule on areas of conflict much like a judge, but the contents of the hearing will not belong to the public domain.
A divorce attorney is a crucial ally on the road to the dissolution of your marriage. In addition to providing qualified legal counsel and guidance on practical matters concerning the divorce, they will protect your assets and rights. They will also have your back by giving good advice on staying under the radar and keeping things private during the divorce so as not to shoot yourself in the foot and unravel all of your joint hard work.
Our team at Bronzino Law Firm has successfully represented countless clients in Eatontown, Tinton Falls, Point Pleasant, Wall, Rumson, Middletown, Bay Head, Barnegat, Toms River, and other Ocean and Monmouth County areas because we provide not only excellent legal support, but we care for the diverse elements of a person’s life that are impacted during divorce, many of which most people don’t know to take into consideration. Contact us today at (732) 812-3102 to schedule a free, confidential consultation and get started on closing this chapter of your life in the best possible position to move forward, reputation intact.
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