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There are actions you can take to dissolve the explosive nature of a spouse who is verbally abusive. The first is to set boundaries such as ending a conversation; if the ex becomes abusive, the conversation ends right there or insisting the custody and visitation agreement be respected. Next, it is of utmost importance to not involve the children. Forcing the children to pick sides is at best a wrong decision and, at worst, emotionally abusive for them as well. Regarding the children, neither ex should ever speak ill of one another within earshot of the children. This is someone whom they love with whom they want to spend time, and badmouthing the ex is harmful to the family as a whole. Finally, keep conversations with a toxic ex to parenting and child issues. There is no need to discuss dating, personal information, or anything outside of the children.
Harassment is a larger topic in which emotional abuse is placed. It is when an abuser intentionally causes emotional harm with threatening language via text, phone calls, or social media in repetitive instances, causing emotional distress. It can also include actually hitting, pushing, or kicking the victim.
There are a few options. One would be to divorce and move on with as little contact with an abusive ex as is possible. Enjoy life, set boundaries, make new friends, find a new hobby or pastime, and leave the past in the past. However, for many people, that just isn’t enough. Stopping an abuser in their tracks by suing them is sometimes precisely what needs to be done.
Documentation is vital for this kind of case. There are several ways to prove the distress has affected someone by documenting sleep patterns, lost or gained weight, trouble at work, medical records, and the results of any medical interventions which indicate stress-caused health issues. The case must be discussed with an attorney as soon as possible to file a lawsuit and prepare for the discovery part of the trial. At this point, there is a possibility that the other side may want to settle out of court. This should only be done if the lawyer of the victim is in agreement. If no agreement is reached, the case will go to trial.
There are several factors in having the necessary evidence to sue someone for emotional distress. Physical concerns such as stress-related conditions like migraine headaches or ulcers can be proof of distress. Testimony from a doctor and/or psychologist goes a long way in proving the negative effects one has experienced. Family members, coworkers, or friends who have witnessed incidents can also testify. Also, time is important as in how long the defendant has caused the emotional distress.
Divorce is stressful enough, and when emotional distress is a part of it, things can become complicated. As much as one would like to wrap up the unpleasantries and move on, some people do not make that possible. A divorce attorney can not only help with your divorce but can, by doing so, give you a new lease on life and a fresh start.
At Bronzino Law Firm, our divorce attorneys are waiting to hear from you. If you live in Lakewood, Red Bank, Point Pleasant, or Eatonton, we have knowledgeable legal professionals who work with passion and will handle your case personally. Don’t let intimidation and bullying prevent you from moving forward. Place the law on your side with our help.
Contact our offices today at (732) 812-3102 to speak with a family lawyer about your individual situation and the legal avenues that may be available to you. We are ready to start your case immediately and get you moving forward to your best life.