The tender years’ doctrine is still applied in child custody cases, but only as a supplement to considering the child’s best interest. While it was used single-handedly in the past to award custody to mothers of very young children, the New Jersey Superior Court: Family Part will consider whether it is in the child’s best interest to be with their mother in their ‘tender years,’ reviewing a variety of gender-neutral factors.
In a shift away from gender-specific custodial principle, the New Jersey Family Part court and other U.S. judicial systems adopted the United Nations’ “best interests standard.” This standard utilizes a variety of factors to determine what type of custodial arrangement and visitation agreement would be in the child’s best interest, which the court holds to be the central pillar of any custody case. Factors to be considered in determining legal and physical custody include who has been the primary caregiver, proximity of each parent to the child’s primary home, parental income and employment and scheduling issues as such, the age and preference of the child, history of drug or domestic abuse, etc.
Throughout the twentieth century and into the twenty-first, the tender years’ doctrine was used fairly sweepingly to grant child custody of children four years old and younger to their mother, largely regardless of other factors. In 2015, a New Jersey Appellate Division ruling challenged the sweeping nature of the tender years’ doctrine. In the case of Fisher v. Szczyglowski, the father was given shared custody and visitation rights to his 11-month old child, despite the fact that the mother was still breastfeeding. Because the father had played a large role in the child’s first months, the court ruled that it was in the child’s best interest for the father to maintain consistency of visitation and participation in his child’s life.
As Fisher v. Szczyglowski showed us, the New Jersey family court system takes a gender-neutral approach to determining the best interests of the child in a custody case. Still, the tender years’ doctrine is still taken into account when a very young child, especially one who is still breastfeeding, is at the center of a custody hearing. Application of – or at least reference to – the tender years’ doctrine supports a mother’s case in a custody hearing, while the gender-neutral best interests standard can support a father’s or mother’s case depending on reviewed factors.
Because the factors that determine a child’s best interest and therefore their physical and legal custody are largely subjective, and up to the scrutiny of the Superior Court: Family Part, it is important to have an expert child custody attorney on your side. Our team at Bronzino Law Firm has over a decade of experience helping mothers and fathers in Howell, Manalapan, Rumson, Toms River, Freehold, Middletown, Point Pleasant, and towns throughout Monmouth and Ocean County get full custody of their children, as well as swiftly coming to parental visitation plans and shared custody agreements that benefit the child and the parents. Contact us today at (732) 812-3102 to receive a free and confidential consultation regarding your child custody case.
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